"But, according to Myers, Zoomer’s grandparents initially felt they were missing out on valuable experiences, such as bathing their grandchild."
Kyl Myers is raising her child gender neutral and it's her parents and child's grandparents who had a specific reaction to it.
According to The Independent, "When Myers gave birth to Zoomer, she decided to keep their anatomy a secret from Zoomer’s grandparents so they would realise Myers was serious about her
decision and her dedication to raising her child this way - and so they would become comfortable using the correct pronouns." The article continued,
It's easy to understand how grandparents would feel that way but many of us would agree that it's up to the parents to choose how to best raise their child.